23 July 2008

Carlos on love.

LOVE, I've spoken, written, and lived it.

Recently I saw a TED talk on love. Helen Fisher's presentation on love. http://blog.ted.com/2008/07/the_brain_in_lo.php

It blows my mind. Love that is. The thing about the whole presentation it gave a feeling that I, like so many others, already knew this. Us who have loved, we knew it all. But someone putting all of this into a scientific work, that's all I needed to know. I needed to know that it IS normal to feel like this. It's not just my ability to get.... crazy. It's not just me.

Looking at all of the facts and stuff. I am glad I love, I am happy to have understood that feeling, that instinctive-primal-disorienting-incomprehensible-yet-universal feeling. I love love.

I used to say that one of the most important and powerful words that I hated using, was love. It was because I didn't fully understand that no one really understands, and I will never be able to completely explain love. It's something that has to be experienced before you fully realize its beauty.

I had an idea of its power when I was younger. I said,  "It's over used, it's too powerful to be tossed around so sparingly." And I would get angry at people who said, "I love so-and-such"

Is it too valuable to cheapen with improper use? Should it be used to describe the feelings you have for, Action Bubble's scum-scrubbin-bubble solution?

Personally, I feel that there shouldn't even be a word to encapsulate such a broad term. But, if love doesn't exist, what does?

1 comment:

Wingles.angel4 said...

Idealistic- I'm happy, gay and everything is perfect. I'm in love with the beuatiful, most cutest girl i ever met, smart and witty and nothing could go wrong.

Realist - I'm single, having fun at parties, girls girls girls, truth is most girls only go for the hot guys, and if they do they are ho's. I'm not that good looking. if i ever fall in love again, chances are it will never last. In fact i hate her.

did, i get that right? point is, i love that feeling too, my memories of it aren't worth losing, and i know that exists, memories. . .

Honestly i have no idea, just wanted to rant a bit, but i hoped it help to see where i was coming from. feel free to delete if you were bothered.